To clean the nafs of the 68 blemishes listed below is the beginning of good adab which is the greater part of Islam and of Sufism.
- Ujub - to be proud of one’s spiritual state
- Riya - to show off
- Kibr - arrogance
- Hasad - envy
- Bukhul - miserliness
- Kin - to be vengeful
- Kufr - faithlessness
- Bid’at- to distort religion and tradition
- Kufran-i ni’met - to deny the giver of gifts or to belittle the gifts
- To be disatisfied and complain about one’s state
- To cease to have hope for Allah’s Mercy
- To be sure of Allah’s punishment
- To condone tyrrany and help tyrants
- To speak against decent people
- To keep the heart attached to this world
- To keep wanting to be a leader
- To expect approval and compliments
- To fear criticism
- Not to be able to prevent oneself from wanting
- Instead of wishing to learn the truth, being an imitator
- To fawn over people for personal benefit
- To be happy about disasters that fall upon people, even your enemies
- To be a coward
- To be angry
- To be a tyrant
- Not to keep one’s word
- To believe in bad luck
- To think unjustly about people
- To love one’s property
- To be overly concerned with the world and the worldly
- To be ambitious
- To lead an irresponsible life
- To mix oneself into affairs that do not concern one
- To be undignified
- Not to keep the time of one’s devotions due to laziness
- To be shameless
- To lament the loss of things
- To gossip
- To be stubborn
- To be an egoist
- To be a hypocrite
- To cheat
- To be brutish
- To be dishonorable in relations with women
- To be lustful
- Not to accept one’s error and continue insisting on it
- To be afraid of poverty
- Not to believe in destiny or to talk about destiny
- To make oneself depressed
- To take pleasure in belittling others
- To be indiscriminately happy
- To be insincerely kind and fawning over rich people
- To be disdainful of the poor
- To boast and be proud of one’s past
- To show off one’s physical prowess
- To belittle others
- To like to talk long unnecessarily
- To be self centered in conversation
- To forget about one’s own shortcomings and be preoccupied with the shortcomings of others
- To exclude from one’s heart the fear of Allah and the shame and sadness of one’s state
- In distress to make excuses and to fall back on and encourage the nafs
- To decline to help in a struggle for Allah’s sake
- To pretend to be friends with one’s enemy
- To cheat in one’s work
- To set traps for others
- To identify with the world to the extent of forgetting Allah
- To take pleasure in people’s suffering
- Not to suffer because of one’s mistakes
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